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Posted by: "sanathkumarts"
Hi!
Is Success Genetic?
Is Success a Matter of Luck?
Is Success something that happens only to other people? ... While we
watch from the sidelines?
Is there something we can do to ensure Success in our lives?
The Good News is... Yes! A resounding Yes!
The following article, from the Net, delves into the lives of several
successful people, across nationalities, across countries, across
different eras and gives us practical do-able pointers on the traits we
need to develop to achieve Success.
Success is achievable independent of where we are--geographically ,
hierarchically and whatever be the condition of the times we live in...
Please read on...
Top 10 Traits of Highly Successful People
By: Lee Davidhcz
We have all read about people who are successful briefly.
They win a gold medal, make a fortune, or star in one great
movie…and then disappear.
Or, there are those like Marilyn Monroe who achieve extraordinary
success, at the cost of their own lives.
These examples do not inspire me!
My focus and fascination is with people who seem to do well in many
areas of life, and do it over and over through a lifetime.
In entertainment, I think of Paul Newman and Bill Cosby.
In business, I think of Ben and Jerry (the ice cream moguls), and a
local hardware store owner who is famous for the money he's give to
children's charities.
As a Naval Officer, husband, businessman, politician and now as a
mediator and philanthropist on the world stage, Jimmy Carter has had a
remarkable life.
We all know examples of people who go from one success to another.
These are the people who inspire me!
I've studied them, and I've noticed they have the following
traits in common:
1. They work hard! Yes, they play hard, too! They get up early, they
rarely complain, they expect performance from others, but they expect
extraordinary performance from themselves. Repeated, high-level success
starts with a recognition that hard work pays off.
2. They are incredibly curious and eager to learn. They study, ask
questions and read – constantly! An interesting point, however:
While most of them did well in school, the difference is that they apply
or take advantage of what they learn. Repeated success is not about
memorizing facts, it's about being able to take information and
create, build, or apply it in new and important ways. Successful people
want to learn everything about everything!
3. They network. They know lots of people, and they know lots of
different kinds of people. They listen to friends, neighbors, co-workers
and bartenders. They don't have to be "the life of the party", in
fact many are quiet, even shy, but they value people and they value
relationships. Successful people have a rolodex full of people who value
their friendship and return their calls.
4. They work on themselves and never quit! While the "over-night
wonders" become arrogant and quickly disappear, really successful people
work on their personality, their leadership skills, management skills,
and every other detail of life. When a relationship or business deal
goes sour, they assume they can learn from it and they expect to do
better next time. Successful people don't tolerate flaws; they fix
them!
5. They are extraordinarily creative. They go around asking, "Why not?"
They see new combinations, new possibilities, new opportunities and
challenges where others see problems or limitations. They wake up in the
middle of the night yelling, "I've got it!" They ask for advice, try
things out, consult experts and amateurs, always looking for a better,
faster, cheaper solution. Successful people create stuff!
6. They are self-reliant and take responsibility. Incredibly successful
people don't worry about blame, and they don't waste time
complaining. They make decisions and move on. Sometimes they are
criticized for taking this to extremes – Jimmy Carter carried his
own briefcase and a President "shouldn't" do that! Extremely
successful people take the initiative and accept the responsibilities of
success.
7. They are usually relaxed and keep their perspective. Even in times of
stress or turmoil, highly successful people keep their balance, they
know the value of timing, humor, and patience. They rarely panic or make
decisions on impulse. Unusually successful people breath easily, ask the
right questions, and make sound decisions, even in a crisis.
8. Extremely successful people live in the present moment. They know
that "Now" is the only time they can control. They have a "gift" for
looking people in the eye, listening to what is being said, enjoying a
meal or fine wine, music or playing with a child. They never seem
rushed, and they get a lot done! They take full advantage of each day.
Successful people don't waste time, they use it!
9. They "look over the horizon" to see the future. They observe trends,
notice changes, see shifts, and hear the nuances that others miss. A
basketball player wearing Nikes is trivial, the neighbor kid wearing
them is interesting, your own teenager demanding them is an investment
opportunity! Extremely successful people live in the present, with one
eye on the future!
10. Repeatedly successful people respond instantly! When an investment
isn't working out, they sell. When they see an opportunity, they
make the call. If an important relationship is cooling down, they take
time to renew it. When technology or a new competitor or a change in the
economic situation requires an adjustment, they are the first and
quickest to respond.
These traits work together in combination, giving repeatedly successful
people a huge advantage. Because they are insatiable learners, they can
respond wisely to change. Because their personal relationships are
strong, they have good advisors, and a reserve of goodwill when things
go bad. And finally, none of these traits are genetic! They can be
learned! They are free and they are skills you can use. Start now!
Regards,
Sanath Kumar T S
Moderator
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